tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post6694760225862948631..comments2024-03-29T09:13:15.326+03:00Comments on SUSIE of ARABIA: Burqa Barbie: News AnchorSusie of Arabiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13315336613944665651noreply@blogger.comBlogger43125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-8088571394730534112010-03-19T16:29:17.097+03:002010-03-19T16:29:17.097+03:00No. You did not rephrase the same. I was speakin...No. You did not rephrase the same. I was speaking as a member of a group TO WHICH I BELONG. You were speaking for women in a group to which you DON'T belong.<br /><br />Don't speak for others. <br /><br />And Susie- or anyone else has a right to there opinions- about whatever they want. Opinions, is different than speaking of others reasons or motivations- though if you want to offer an opinion on that fine.<br /><br />ie. "In my opinion all women who don't wear hijab believe they are wrong"<br /><br />There. You are welcome to your opinion- but I'll tell you right now as a non-hijibi you are wrong.Sandynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-90050898194851510062010-03-19T09:34:27.848+03:002010-03-19T09:34:27.848+03:00sandy I quoted you, you didn't say some you sa...sandy I quoted you, you didn't say some you said :"So it is best not to speak for the women who don't wear hijab. We can speak for ourselves."<br />I just rephrase the same for Saudi women, we don't need this kind of spoke person!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-35481423980592398582010-03-18T22:03:19.946+03:002010-03-18T22:03:19.946+03:00It is two completely different things. The owner ...It is two completely different things. The owner of this blog, was giving HER opinion about things. ALL people are entitled to their opinions. <br /><br />What you did was to speak for others. You gave the opinion of "all women who don't wear hijab." Well, even I as a non-hijabi wouldn't do that. I would speak for myself or say, "some" women. <br /><br />Also, you did not in any way address what I said to you, you changed the subject to complain about Susie.Sandynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-78541074825455430622010-03-17T02:05:39.200+03:002010-03-17T02:05:39.200+03:00To Anon@1:28AM - If you are talking about wearing ...To Anon@1:28AM - If you are talking about wearing hijab, I have made no secret about the fact that I dislike wearing it, but I have no problem at all with women who CHOOSE to wear it - so how is that considered "judging" this culture? Just because I speak up about things that bother ME doesn't mean that I am speaking for anyone else. Where do you get this from - that I say I am speaking for Saudi women? I think you are reading WAY more into what I write than what is intended. I speak for myself and no one else - and I have never said otherwise. Just because I ask questions about things I don't understand here does not mean I am judging. You are making assumptions that are not true.Susie of Arabiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13315336613944665651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-81172773671323206922010-03-17T01:28:32.833+03:002010-03-17T01:28:32.833+03:00Sandy you say ": So it is best not to speak f...Sandy you say ": So it is best not to speak for the women who don't wear hijab. We can speak for ourselves."<br /> it's the same with us Saudi women, women who cover etc...we can speak for ourselves no need for people like the author of this blog and her supporters to come to our country and then judge our culture and /or religionAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-70639862242883012452010-03-12T23:37:26.953+03:002010-03-12T23:37:26.953+03:00Maha,
While it is true that when you are a Muslim ...Maha,<br />While it is true that when you are a Muslim you accept the whole package- not everyone understands that in the same way. I do not wear hijab. I wish never to wear it. Not because, I "don't like it". I have studied the issue extensively and am convinced it is not a religious requirement. I actually feel I am doing the right thing by not wearing it.<br /><br />We are not all the same in the way we understand things. And by the way, there are many others who feel as I do. So it is best not to speak for the women who don't wear hijab. We can speak for ourselves.<br /><br />SandySandynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-36599384882015711012010-03-12T21:21:24.004+03:002010-03-12T21:21:24.004+03:00Nathalie wrote:
"And Maha when you write &quo...Nathalie wrote:<br />"And Maha when you write "Why hasn't anyone complained about the half naked barbie with her perfect body that enforces a certain concept of beauty on young girls?" hellooooo, wake up!<br />It's been done a million times!!!<br />My daughters and their friends know what to think of that stupid barbie image!"<br /><br />Yeah I know it's been done a million times, but there is no change my dear. You are still selling products like cars, razor blades, and sandwiches using women's bodies or actually specific parts of it. You are still idolizing women for the size of their breasts...<br />And by the way..young Western girls are much worse than their mothers and grandmothers.. I've lived in the States in the 80's and visited it after 2000...the difference is huge in terms of morals and principles and appearance...<br />Your campaigns and studies need to be more interactive and effective in order to have a tangible impact.<br /> <br />http://saudirevelations.wordpress.com/2009/12/01/share-it-with-every-woman/<br /><br />Thanks & peace to all :)Maha Noor Elahihttp://www.saudirevelations.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-67859584200502648832010-03-12T21:13:21.167+03:002010-03-12T21:13:21.167+03:00@mrs Fermat,
Weather the hijab or niqab is forced ...@mrs Fermat,<br />Weather the hijab or niqab is forced or not, it is still another culture's issue...<br /><br />I understand many non-Muslim women's refusal to wear hijab when they visit Suadi Arabia, and I don't think they should be forced to wear it at all as long as they dress up decently. As for Muslim women, we are not forced...we do it because it is part of our religion..do you think that Muslim men who go the mosque 5 times a day are forced? This is our religion and we try to follow it as much as possible. Both men and women have obligations they have to fulfill, and if they don't they are considered sinners. Many women here in Jeddah wear the abaya without the head scarf because they are not convinced ...others choose to wear abaya and headscarf, and others choose to cover completely...<br />Once you are a Muslim, you have to take the whole package..you don't (select) the teachings of Islam..well I like praying and charity but I don't like wearing hijab and not drinking alcohol...It's a package take it or leave it....and all Muslim women who don't wear the hijab know very well that they are not doing the right thing...some actually wish they could have the will and strength to wear it some day...<br /><br />For more explanation on Hijab, please read my article (Understanding Hijab - Parts I & II)<br />I actually wrote it to answer many of Susie's questions in this blog.<br /><br />http://saudirevelations.wordpress.com/2010/02/26/understanding-hijab/<br /><br />http://saudirevelations.wordpress.com/2010/03/11/understanding-hijab-part-ii/<br /><br />I hope I have clarified things a bit :)<br /><br />nor ms that people from other cultures must respect it. No one out of our culture has the right to interfere in what is being done to us..we do have a lot of problems, but what society doesn't have problems at all? Name one, and you will deserve a Nobel Prize!Maha Noor Elahihttp://www.saudirevelations.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-21982850073479238832010-03-04T11:18:11.563+03:002010-03-04T11:18:11.563+03:00@Lorena,
Actually I agree with you that a country ...@Lorena,<br />Actually I agree with you that a country should be able to say no one can cover their face. Because this is about more than religion, it's about being able to hide ones identity which is also a security issue. Also, very clearly covering the face is NOT an absolute religious requirement. Most Muslims acknowledge that.Sandynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-46235963884880529882010-03-03T19:59:17.841+03:002010-03-03T19:59:17.841+03:00For Sandy: about the first point I completely agre...For Sandy: about the first point I completely agree with you. It was just to show that this behaviour is very common, even among Gulf men.<br /><br />About second point: I don't bother if you decide to cover your face almost completely in your country, but if you do it in my country, where facial espressions are so important, you make me feel unconfortable. For my culture, your face is your personal identity. So it's ok if you cover your hair with a hjiab, but your face must be always recognizable. Additionally, according to the Italian law, nobody (man or woman, whoever) can hidden own face. <br /><br />And now, saudi and western girls, I have to say you bye bye because it's six o' clock here and I have to take my son to karate lessons. It is always very interesting "talk" with all of you. <br /><br />Lorenamrs Fermathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12968223641792087183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-42515134512529524872010-03-03T19:10:15.833+03:002010-03-03T19:10:15.833+03:00First of all, when women wear hijab/niqab by choic...First of all, when women wear hijab/niqab by choice, it is because they believe that is what God wants them to do. You will find most women in the west are uncomfortable exposing their breasts while walking around shoping or visiting with people. So they usually wear a shirt or a dress so they are not topless. That feeling of discomfort and immodesty is the same for women who want to cover their hair. It's just a matter of where someone draws the line. The concept is completely present in the West.<br /><br />BLOGitse.<br />Women who don't wear hijab by choice are the ones who take it off when they leave. It's different than a woman who wants to wear it. Men from every country and in every country go to prostitutes, so I'd ask men what that's about. <br /><br />Mrs. Fermat,<br />All those blonde women from the plane are prostitutes according to you. They are also European. So clearly this situation is not merely an Gulf one. As I wrote above, men in and from every country go to prostitutes.<br /><br />And if you don't care what people wear, then it shouldn't bother you where they wear it. Shouldn't women be free to choose what they wear? Whatever it is?Sandynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-21398228593315596442010-03-03T15:25:44.667+03:002010-03-03T15:25:44.667+03:00Always for Sofia: I think that you have a strange ...Always for Sofia: I think that you have a strange idea about European women, probably you have watched too many american movies. I don't walk half naked, I don't betrajed my husband and absolutely I don't live my daily life thinking to the men wishes all day long. I don't judge your dressing, why do you judge me and how I live? <br /><br />You wrote that you appreciate the anonymity that your covers give you. I don't understand, but that's ok for me, but when women like you come in Western countries and they insist to wear abaya, gloves and soks and niqab, all black, even if it not allowed (like in Italy, where I live) and they are aware that people (men and women) stare them in the streets, children are feared, sometimes traffic is stopped, what kind of anonimity they are looking for? <br /><br />All the best,girls<br />Lorenamrs Fermathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12968223641792087183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-30913510531844943492010-03-03T14:31:05.829+03:002010-03-03T14:31:05.829+03:00For Sophia: I don't want to generalize, writin...For Sophia: I don't want to generalize, writing that all the saudi men use prostitutes when they go abroad, but I want to tell you a little episode. Until last year I worked for an American company and every two weeks I went to Istambul. (Wonderful city, btw). I was used to arrive on Wed and came back home on Friday. Every time, at the passport check I tried to avoid the long queues of blond, tall girls just arrived from Moscow. It was named "sex fligh". Can you guess why they arrive just on Wed? Because they want to be ready for Thur and Friday when thousands of men arriving from Gulf countries.... Sorry, but if you think that a few muslim men use this kind of service, it'is not true.mrs Fermathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12968223641792087183noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-74023283935152330912010-03-03T13:16:20.140+03:002010-03-03T13:16:20.140+03:00I didn't say ALL.
Maybe I should have asked
w...I didn't say ALL. <br />Maybe I should have asked<br />why SOME...but the questions are still the same.<br />If no Saudi women or men do those things I would not ask these questions at all.<br />When people do those things they have a need. <br />Women need to feel free to be as they would like to be?<br />Men need to feel free?<br />If they are not free in their own society to do what they do in other countries what does it tell to us?BLOGitsehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07002076381580024974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-13119983181530205332010-03-03T07:34:56.228+03:002010-03-03T07:34:56.228+03:00Blogitse,
All saudi women and men????
stop genera...Blogitse,<br />All saudi women and men????<br /><br />stop generalizing, there's good and bad in any culture, there's people who practice their religion and some who don't.<br />So why do you put everyone in the same boat.<br /><br />Do I say that all westerners fornicate?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-31591072501725398902010-03-02T13:25:25.874+03:002010-03-02T13:25:25.874+03:00I've been following this discussion and I have...I've been following this discussion and I have 2 questions:<br /><br />1. Why Saudi women take off all the covers when they come to Egypt?<br />They look like any Western woman.<br /><br />2. Why Saudi men drink and use prostitute services when outside of SA? Both wrong - or right?BLOGitsehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07002076381580024974noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-35206909619924925752010-03-02T05:14:14.021+03:002010-03-02T05:14:14.021+03:00You say you don't understand why. why would yo...You say you don't understand why. why would you, you don't believe in Allah and his word , the Quran.<br />I cover wherever I go, because I do it for modesty and to follow Allah's word.<br />It's not men who tell me what to do, it's because I believe that it is right.I am proud to be muslim.<br />Islam gives women rights, rights given 1400 years ago when there were none anywhere else in the world.<br />You have the right to walk around half naked,I have the right to cover,why would you speak in my behalf???<br /> I am free to do as I wish, don't think that the majority of muslim women are oppressed, we are not and it is offending to us to have people "trying to free us".<br /><br />SofiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-8209311614622590082010-03-01T02:07:57.526+03:002010-03-01T02:07:57.526+03:00And when you say "leave us alone, it's no...And when you say "leave us alone, it's none of your business", the thing is I'm seeing more and more girls in MY COUNTRY (France) wearing the scarf. And I'd like to understand why. <br /><br />I JUST DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY.<br /><br />I guess my reason for coming here is to try and understand. Just like I appreciate your presence here in accepting to discuss these issues with us westerners.<br /><br />But the freedom that my generation and my mother's generation fought to get, I will not let go away. Not in my country. If I need to fight for it, I will.<br /><br />May peace be with you.<br />We are sisters.Nathalie H.D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16806509041466785588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-70947684912332046152010-03-01T02:02:20.580+03:002010-03-01T02:02:20.580+03:00Thank you very much Sofia for clarifying this very...Thank you very much Sofia for clarifying this very important piece of vocabulary for me. <br /><br />I thought hijab and scarf where the same thing. I most appreciate you taking the time to explain to me that I was wrong. Then a lot of what is said above makes more sense.<br /><br />As a girl who turned 13 when Women's Lib was born, I know all the things that we in the western world could not do when I was a child and became available to us in the 1970's. <br /><br />When I was a child my mother wouldn't have been able to open a bank account without her husband's consent. She had no right to manage her own money. That changed when I was a teenager.<br /><br />When I was a teenager I also got to see the first women who became pilots or engineers. I saw that often they could be better at their jobs than men. <br /><br />I saw women accessing contraception and being able to decide how many children they would have and when. I doesn't make them sluts, it only means that the children that are born to them are wanted and welcome. <br /><br />I am proud of what we have achieved for women in our countries. I see it at the way to the future. I can't imagine having to accept the rule of men over what I should wear, whom I should see, where I should go and when. <br />It is absolutely intolerable to me.<br /><br />I want to be treated just like men, no more, no less. If men are allowed to do something, I want to be allowed to do it too. It's equal, it's fair. Men and women are the two halves of the universe, one half should not rule over the other half.<br /><br />I am distressed when I hear you repeating the words that men make you believe that we are "women who parade their naked bodies and flirt with any men" as you say. <br /><br />I have been married for 30 years and have never been unfaithful to my husband. I never wear make-up and dress modestly. I don't feel "judged on my looks" as you say, I feel accepted for who I am, body and soul united.Nathalie H.D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16806509041466785588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-80172658451428587972010-02-25T21:41:36.475+03:002010-02-25T21:41:36.475+03:00I was forgetting to mention, Nathalie before you g...I was forgetting to mention, Nathalie before you get all upset by the term "hijab" used when refering to any covering, know what it does mean, hijab is not the term for head scarf.<br /> In Islam, it has a broader meaning. It is the principle of modesty and includes behaviour as well as dress for both males and females.<br />So it describes any modest covering including the scarve, the niqab or the burqa<br /><br />SofiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-91588819961824021232010-02-25T21:30:15.552+03:002010-02-25T21:30:15.552+03:00Nathalie,
the problem is that it's not your b...Nathalie, <br />the problem is that it's not your business, I wear niqab by choice,I lead a very active life and love the anonymity that niqab,burqa brings me.<br />I am not judge for my looks etc.<br />I don't need the attention the shape of body would bring to valorize myself<br /><br />Leave us alone, not every women is "forced" to cover,it's our choice.. we don't need the voice of western women who parade their naked bodies and flirt with any men then don't realize that they are the ones being used...<br /><br />Stop your saviors attitude or go save an endangered species.<br /><br />SofiaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-36351716139640000912010-02-25T21:06:47.201+03:002010-02-25T21:06:47.201+03:00Clearly, Mattel has finally realized that they'...Clearly, Mattel has finally realized that they've lost a huge chunk of the Middle East and Muslim World market to "Fulla".<br /><br />http://www.fulla.com/<br /><br />I imagine it's been quite a blow because Fulla is EVERYWHERE Barbie used to be.<br /><br />Also, Natalie, I think you are mixing issues. Many women who wear Hijab, aspire to one day wearing Niqab. Wearing Niqab does not stop women from studying or working, any more than Hijab does. The point is whether the woman is choosing it for herself.<br /><br />Maha, many Hijabi's are western so it isn't right to set them as opposites. And I hope that EVERYONE will protest the enforcement of hijab on Women in Saudi. No one has a problem if they choose to wear it. But we all know many of them are forced to. And just as you are tired of some attitudes, we non-Hijabi sisters get tired of the attitudes displayed by some who wear it.Sandynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-79361630103097010472010-02-25T12:58:46.468+03:002010-02-25T12:58:46.468+03:00And Maha when you write "Why hasn't anyon...And Maha when you write "Why hasn't anyone complained about the half naked barbie with her perfect body that enforces a certain concept of beauty on young girls?" hellooooo, wake up!<br />It's been done a million times!!!<br />My daughters and their friends know what to think of that stupid barbie image!Nathalie H.D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16806509041466785588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-63167147204966136662010-02-25T12:56:42.728+03:002010-02-25T12:56:42.728+03:00Re a number of comments above, I really get angry ...Re a number of comments above, I really get angry when ladies wearing the hijab defend the burqa - is there no difference at all between the two? Let them wear the burqa then? !!!<br /><br />There's a world of difference between a Muslim lady wearing the hijab and engaging fully in all aspects of life (driving, walking freely in the streets, studying, working) and a lady wearing the burqa who isn't allowed to drive or work. <br /><br />Why aren't these girls able to see and recognise the difference? When they take criticism of the burqa for a criticism of Islam they are doing themselves a disservice : by mixing it all they force US westerners to mix it all ! <br /><br />So yes if Islam = hijab or burqa indistinctly, I am against Islam as a whole and I become stupidly radical in my views.<br /><br />If we can divide between moderate Islam which enables women to engage actively in society and radical Islam which pressures them into a status of inferior beings, then we can start talking.<br /><br />For god's sake girls, if you're wearing the hijab DON'T DEFEND THE BURQA!Nathalie H.D.https://www.blogger.com/profile/16806509041466785588noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3569425364802315563.post-20642357326565315682010-02-25T00:19:02.570+03:002010-02-25T00:19:02.570+03:00Hi FreeSpirit - Putting up with you is a pleasure!...Hi FreeSpirit - Putting up with you is a pleasure!<br /><br />Hi Mrs.Fermat - It all boils down to the fact that it should be the woman's choice whether to wear hijab or not, and here in Saudi, it may not always be so. <br /><br />Hi Anon/Sofia - I don't think anybody is complaining here, and no one said Saudi women are idiots.<br /><br />Hi MrsF - I don't know that the remark was addressed to you - I'm not really sure who it was addressed to though...Susie of Arabiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13315336613944665651noreply@blogger.com