There has been a lot of discussion lately about what women in Saudi Arabia must wear when they are out in public. That traditionally black cloak worn over her clothing that hides the female form is called the abaya, and lately there have been heated discussions about whether colored abayas should be permitted or not. My husband has told me that when he was growing up in Jeddah, women did not wear abayas. Of course women dressed modestly, but they wore what they wished in terms of colors and styles, and they weren't obligated to wear the uniform of the black abaya. It wasn't really until about the 1990s when religious police began forcing women to wear the abaya in public.
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| Beige/Taupe/ Black Abaya with Turquoise Trim |
But why black, you may ask? There is really no reason at all for women to wear black. Somehow it became the only color worn in Saudi Arabia, although there is certainly no rule, law or regulation about the color being only black. Some religious authorities have thrown fits these past few years with the introduction of colors and embellishments to satisfy women's preferences and individuality. The opposition claims that embellishments and colors attract attention and are not modest. I guess black is the only color they consider "modest." The purpose of the abaya is to dress modestly, obscuring the female curves, loosely covering all but the hands and face. Whether an abaya is black or not shouldn't really matter. To be forced to wear black in the brutal heat of Saudi Arabia is inhumane. And unless the government is going to provide black abayas for all the women in Saudi Arabia to wear, how we choose to express ourselves through our abayas should be up to us. My personal opinion is that men want women to wear black in Saudi Arabia so they will be less inclined to venture out in the heat. It is a way for men to maintain control and keep women at home because it's just too darn hot to go outside wearing black.
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| Black Abaya with Pink Camouflage Sleeves |
What really bugs me is that people in KSA try to say that women should wear black abayas because of religious teachings. No where does Islam say that a woman must wear an abaya, and no where does it say that the abaya must be black. Islam requires both men and women to dress modestly - that's it. Another thing that bugs me is that according to Islam, men are supposed to lower their gazes and not look at women. So what does it matter what color I am wearing if men aren't supposed to be looking anyway? Men need to mind their own business and quit trying to control every aspect of women's lives, down to what color she should wear. It's ridiculous.
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| Black Abaya with White Flowers |
A disturbing and discouraging article appeared this past week in the Arab News regarding a
campaign which has been started at Dammam University opposing colorful abayas. The article states that "female students are required to abide by the rule of wearing black as a sign of respect to the educational environment." As if students wearing colors other than black are disrespectful to teachers and other students and that they cannot learn if they are wearing colors. What I feel is disrespectful is someone trying to dictate to me what color I should wear. You can read
this enlightening blog post written by SaudiWoman a few years ago explaining "Abaya Regulations" and dress code enforcement at schools in Saudi Arabia.
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| Brown Abaya |
I just love how I am always told that there is no compulsion in Islam, however it seems that not only am I forced to wear the abaya, but now they want to go so far as to limit my color choice to black. So what is it? Compulsion or not?
Currently there is a "survey" on Arab News asking: Do you think colorful abayas should be avoided? Yes or No? The poll is running neck and neck. Personally I don't like the way the survey is worded - it has a negative connotation, insinuating that color should be something to "avoided."
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| Blue Abaya with African Print Sleeves and Back |
Don't men have more important things to do than worry about what colors women are wearing? Women are getting killed in car crashes daily here in Saudi Arabia because we are not allowed to drive. We are at the mercy of incompetent male drivers who drive recklessly, putting everyone in harm's way. Why isn't more attention paid to this issue instead of what color I am wearing?
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| Back View of the Blue Abaya above |
Men in Saudi Arabia are allowed to wear pretty much whatever they want to wear - any color, any style of dress. I've seen men out in public in KSA in attire that I can only describe as suitable for wearing in the privacy of one's own home. They literally look as if they just crawled out of bed and went out the door. Nobody ever says a word about this. Maybe it's time we did - especially since women are getting picked on because we don't all want to look the same wearing boring black every single day, while men are permitted to wear bedclothes out in public. I object!
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| Beige and Brown Abaya with Gold Embroidery |
It's bad enough that we have to wear layers of clothing in the sweltering heat of Saudi Arabia. I'll be damned if I will be forced to wear only black. I am happy to see colorful abayas now in the shops, and a wider variety of styles and fabrics to choose from. I actually enjoy abaya shopping now.
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| Print Top with Black Skirt Abaya |
By the way, the abayas featured in this post all belong to me. I made a few of them myself, and some I bought. I apologize for the bad quality of the images.
