A lot has happened here in Saudi Arabia since I first moved here in 2007, and a lot has happened even since this updated interview 2 short years ago. To me it's really interesting to realize all the changes that have occurred in just my short blip of time spent living here in Saudi Arabia. I hope you find it interesting too and that you enjoy reading it! Here it is -
Saturday, February 8, 2020
From Florida to Jeddah — Women on the Road
A lot has happened here in Saudi Arabia since I first moved here in 2007, and a lot has happened even since this updated interview 2 short years ago. To me it's really interesting to realize all the changes that have occurred in just my short blip of time spent living here in Saudi Arabia. I hope you find it interesting too and that you enjoy reading it! Here it is -
Wednesday, March 14, 2018
Along the Road from Jeddah to Yanbu
During our recent road trip from Jeddah to Yanbu for the annual Yanbu Flowers and Gardens Festival (CLICK HERE to see photos of the amazing event), we were treated to some very typical Saudi visual sights along the way. The drive from Jeddah to Yanbu should take about three and a half hours, but sometimes it takes us as long as eight hours because we like to stop at the interesting sights along the way!
On this trip, desert vendors were out selling their wares in full force - and as it was the height of watermelon season, we saw many watermelon vendors setting up shop on the sides of the highway.
Some of the desert vendors have some pretty sweet set ups for their time out in the heat. Some had erected nearby tents for respite from the sun or to take a nap - some tents are even equipped with air conditioners! A few had a grill where they could heat up water for tea or even barbecue their lunch if they were so inclined. Almost all desert vendors are sure to bring along their carpets so they are more comfortable all those hours on the desert floor. CLICK HERE to see more photos of the watermelon season in Saudi Arabia.
We also saw lots of sheep grazing in the rain fed patches of green, being tended to by shepherds. Sheep are raised in Saudi Arabia to provide lamb, the most preferred meat for Muslim holidays.
Other desert vendors sold pottery or other items. My husband likes to haggle with them about their asking prices - a talent he acquired growing up in Jeddah at a time when haggling was commonplace.
Then we started seeing the camel crossing signs. I have to tell you, in all our drives along this road, this time we saw more camels along the freeway than any other time before. I was in camel heaven!
We even saw a large herd of the more rare white camels. It was pretty exciting to see so many white camels all at once like that. And the baby camels were so cute!
I've heard some people say that the drive between Jeddah and Yanbu is boring and there's nothing to see. I totally disagree!
Saturday, December 19, 2015
Women Making History in Saudi Arabia
#1 - Saudi women were able to vote as well as run for public office for the first times in their lives.
#2 - 8,264 women gathered together in the capital city of Riyadh to break the existing world record for the largest human awareness ribbon formation.
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| A young Saudi woman casts her vote for the first time in her life. |
SAUDI ELECTIONS:
Saudi women were able to claim victory, winning 20 elected positions even though registered female voters (130,000) accounted for only a mere 10 per cent of the country's male electorate (1.35 million). It wasn't easy for women to make it to the polls. There were many obstacles in the way.
In order to register to vote, women were required to provide national ID cards (many women do not have them), proof of residence (almost all Saudi women live with their legal male guardians, and residency documentation is in the man's name), plus there were limited times to register and limited knowledge by district clerks to help women with the registration process. Another huge problem was that voting was only allowed on one day, and inconsiderate and impractical policy in a world where women cannot drive. The cards were definitely stacked against women from the get go.
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| Saudi female candidate Naseema Assada (Photo: NPR) |
For those Saudi women who wished to run for elected office, a few more new rules were enacted which made their campaigns even more difficult. Gender segregation is strictly enforced here, so female candidates' campaign sites had to be for women only. They were also not allowed to interact or speak directly with men in an effort to gain votes, and they could not display their photos in their promotional materials (neither could men). In addition the Grand Mufti (the country's highest ranking religious leader) spoke out against women participating in the elections and running for office - the general consensus among many being that women belong at home and not in public life. This resulted in some backlash against women, especially in tribal areas.
Prior to the elections, some women (many of whom are writers and activists) were disqualified from running for office, with no reasons provided and no time to challenge their dismissal. Female candidates accounted for 1/6 of the total candidates. Despite all these obstacles, on voting day female voters turned out in an astonishing 80% rate in many districts, leaving the men's turnout average in the dust. And while women clearly had a very slim chance of winning at all, another surprise is that some of the victorious female candidates were elected in tribal areas. Even though the elected positions are all at the local level (city councils) and naysayers express doubts that women's participation signals any real change at all and is nothing more than window dressing, many women are excited at the prospect of finally having a voice, as little as that may be. It is a step in the right direction, even though this might be considered taking baby steps toward women achieving equality in this society.
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| Many Saudi women took their kids along to the voting stations to witness the historic event. |
WORLD RECORD PINK RIBBON EVENT:
This past weekend I traveled to Riyadh to participate in my 2nd Guinness World Record breaking event - forming the world's largest human awareness ribbon chain highlighting the fight against breast cancer. I had previously participated in the very first breast cancer record breaking event in Jeddah back in 2010.
The event was held at the football stadium of Princess Nora University, a public women's institution of higher learning. The final attendance count was a little short of the goal of 10,000 participants, but none-the-less, it was still enough to set the new world record. I was part of a group of about 10 women, including among others, my friend and fellow blogger Laura of Blue Abaya; human rights activist and photographer Samia El Moslimany; TV presenters and sisters Cyma and Nihad Aziz; and architect Anna Laura Petrucci, who is herself a breast cancer survivor. We were all seated in the VIP section, rubbing elbows with at least four Saudi princesses, who are all greatly involved in supporting breast cancer awareness.
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| Photo: Edited and Graphics Added by Laura of Blue Abaya |
I have to say that this event, called 10KSA, was so much more pleasant than the previous event in Jeddah because of the weather. Under the guidance of Princess Reema, it was obvious that much was learned from the first event to make this one run much smoother. It was well run and organized and didn't seem to take nearly as long to form the ribbon and set the record as it did before in Jeddah.
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| 10KSA official scarf designs 2015 |
All women who came were provided with pink fuchsia scarves to wear. One of the rules for the world record is that all participants must be wearing the same color. There were four different designs that I saw - the main body of the scarves were the solid pink and the ends had different designs that were chosen from entries in a contest. The designs all incorporated Arabian influence with the breast cancer theme.
Witnessing the sea of women outfitted in matching pink, coming together for such a worthy cause was extremely exciting and meaningful. Seeing the pride, motivation, and determination of the women of all ages in Saudi Arabia was quite a profound and inspiring experience.
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| The excitement builds as thousands of women wait for the Guinness judge's decision. (Photo: Blue Abaya) |
Now just think about both of these history making events for a moment. In a country where women are still denied the right to drive cars themselves, logistically speaking, both of these accomplishments required immense planning, determination, and effort. Yet both of these events were tremendous successes. It just goes to show that when Saudi women put their minds to something, you better get out of their way!
P.S. - I almost forgot to mention that the worldwide transport company Uber provided FREE transportation to the women of Saudi Arabia on that day if they were going to vote or were attending the Pink Ribbon event. So a big "Thank You to Uber" for their support and generosity in making these events successful.
Tuesday, April 28, 2015
A Message To All Collectors of Censored Music CDs
I had told Marco that it wouldn't be easy for me to get down to a record shop in the first place, since women can't drive here in KSA and I don't have a driver. The few record shops that I know of aren't exactly within walking distance either. I also told him I wasn't going to make a special trip just to get him a CD and that I wasn't making any promises.
Marco had told me that he was a "collector." Several weeks after he initially asked me, I happened to be in the same mall as a record shop, so I decided to go in there and see if I could find what he wanted. I found one Britney Spears CD that had been censored - it was censored with a red marker painted over her exposed skin. The CD cost me 60 Saudi Riyals, which is about $16 US. When I got home, I immediately emailed Marco with the good news and asked him for his address so I could figure out how much the shipping would cost.
He seemed excited and asked if I could send him a photo of the CD, so I did. And then ... after weeks of bugging me in 18 different emails about getting him a Britney Spears CD ... there was nothing but silence from Marco. So I emailed him again. I was miffed that he had not answered me after a few days or sent me his address. And now I had laid out my own money for a CD that I would have never bought in the first place (sorry, Britney!) and there was only a three day return policy at the store. And if I needed to return it, I would have to arrange for transportation to make another trip back to the store. I was not happy! I was feeling duped and felt I had been taken advantage of.
Three days later, I heard back from Marco: "I'm so sorry but the CD isn't official with write pen on it. I have this CD. I'm so sorry."
I was fuming! What kind of a person imposes on a total stranger who lives in another country where women cannot drive and convinces her to make a purchase of an item she would never ever buy - and then says "I already have it?" "Not Official?" Are you %@#*$^% kidding me? I write a blog about living in Saudi Arabia. I don't make any money off of it. And I certainly don't operate a business in which I go on wild goose chases to fulfill stupid people's wishes. If Marco had even the slightest modicum of decency at all, knowing all the trouble I had gone through to get that stupid CD for him (sorry again, Britney!), he should have just kept his stupid mouth shut and graciously paid me for the merchandise he requested.
So, to all you "Collectors" out there who keep writing to ask me to get some certain artist's censored CD from Saudi Arabia, please stop. The answer is NO! And you have Marco the Inconsiderate Idiot A$$hole to thank for it. And besides, according to Marco, the Saudi method of censorship with marking pens isn't "official" anyway!
Saturday, November 8, 2014
Saudi Women Have Fun!
Tuesday, April 16, 2013
Suck it up and Deal With it!
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| Traffic congestion in Jeddah |
Because getting around in Jeddah is difficult due to road construction everywhere and poor street planning, traffic in this city is usually quite congested - and the drivers are crazy, reckless, and inconsiderate. For these reasons and many more – chief among them, that women must depend on men to drive them places - women are oftentimes delayed and late for appointments.
Rant over...
P.S. - And if anyone wants to leave a comment saying why don't I just leave Saudi Arabia if I hate it so much here, save your breath. I don't hate living here - but I DO hate having to depend on men to drive me around when I am perfectly capable of doing it myself.
Saturday, February 16, 2013
Don't Miss It! Head Over Heels in Saudi Arabia
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| Dr. Maisah Sobaihi (photo: Vimeo) |
WHERE: EFFAT UNIVERSITY AUDITORIUM in JEDDAH - GATE 13
WHEN: MONDAY, FEB. 18 (in ENGLISH) and
TUESDAY, FEB. 19 (in ARABIC)
TIME: 8:30 PM
MEN AND WOMEN ARE WELCOME, BUT WITH SEPARATE SEATING
PRICE: 250 SR
Head Over Heels In Saudi Arabia - 3-Minute Promo Video from Maisah Sobaihi on Vimeo.
Thursday, January 31, 2013
SAUDI ARABIA: Boredom + Lack of Activities = Unacceptable Behavior & Stupid Choices
A big problem that exists in Saudi Arabia is the lack of activities for the youth here. As a result, many young men end up creating their own forms of "fun." I felt sickened and angry when I saw this video of these young Saudi bullies who seemingly have no respect for others or the property of others.
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Saturday, July 30, 2011
Sunday, June 26, 2011
TIME Magazine: Road Warriors

When Maha al-Qatani settles into the driver's seat of her family's baby blue humvee these days, she goes through a familiar routine: a glance in the rearview mirror to ensure that her headscarf and face veil are on right; a whispered prayer; and a reassuring pat of her Coach handbag, stuffed with all the essentials for a possible prison stay — toothbrush, deodorant, comfortable clothes and prayer rug.
She may need them. On June 17, al-Qatani made history by becoming the first woman in Saudi Arabia to receive a traffic ticket. She sees it as a badge of honor, proving that she defied a prohibition on women driving in the kingdom and, she hopes, paving the way for more women to do the same. Still, the possibility of prison remains. "If no one sacrifices, no one will get their rights," al-Qatani said on the day of her maiden drive in Saudi Arabia.
In one of the most peculiar revolts to have been inspired by the Arab uprisings, al-Qatani and dozens of other women have taken to the streets — not on foot but behind the wheel. They are leaving their drivers at home and heading out on their own to the grocery store or to the doctor or to pick up their kids from school. Those thankless errands may plague women around the world, but for some in Saudi Arabia they are a long-dreamed-of freedom. "What these women are doing is brave, and what they are seeking is right," said U.S. Secretary of State Hillary Clinton of the protests.
Saudi Arabia — with its vast, unpopulated deserts, low-slung architecture and cheap oil — is a country made for cars. The capital city, Riyadh, is bigger than Los Angeles and has no public-transportation system. So women rely on male family members to get around or hire immigrant drivers at considerable cost.
Reforms in the 1960s opened the way for female education; now women make up 58% of the university population. But that achievement is not matched in the workplace, where women account for less than 15% of the labor force, mostly in the education and medical sectors. The government is urging private businesses to hire more women — under conditions designed to prevent mixing between unrelated men and women — but it is hard to see how that will happen if they can't drive to work. Many middle-class families see little incentive to let their daughters and wives work if they end up spending their salaries on drivers. Architect Nadia Bakhurji estimates that she spends an extra 25% in overhead just providing cars and drivers for the female staff at her firm. It's a sacrifice she is willing to make, she says, but in most other businesses, "it becomes a barrier to hiring women."
Read the rest of this TIME Magazine article by clicking here.
Monday, June 6, 2011
Honk for Saudi Women
Upload your own "Honk for Saudi Women" video to YouTube and then email the URL to: honkforsaudiwomen@gmail.com - make some noise by honking for Saudi women!
Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Thursday, January 6, 2011
Whew!
This past week my hubby Adnan took me out to take photos. Photography is one of my hobbies, and since there's not much else for me to do, going out to take photos around the city has become a treat for me and has become one of my favorite things to do here. There is still quite an aversion to cameras in Saudi Arabia - especially by women. Photographs of uncovered women (with their hair, faces, or some skin showing) have been used to blackmail women for money or to force them to have sex with the blackmailer or other unseemly things. If they were to be exposed, the photos would bring disgrace to the women and their families. When out in public it is perfectly legal here to take photos now, although people are still uncomfortable about it. Taking photos of certain areas, like government buildings and the place where public executions are carried out, is prohibited. It's a shame because many of the government buildings are really beautiful. I don't quite understand why a photo of a building is a problem, but that's the way it is.
I had asked my husband to take me to an area of the city that has some sculptures that I haven't been able to photograph yet because it is so far away and we don't get down there very often. So we left the house bright and early at 7am on a weekend day because traffic would be lighter at that time. Many of my photos are taken from a moving vehicle because it's just about impossible to pull over and take time to lay up my shots when traffic is heavy. Adnan pulled over so I could get out and take some photos of some nearby sculptures. I told him that there was a sign that said "No Photography!" but he just said to hurry up and get my shots and get back in the car. As I was taking my last shot, a police car drove by. Damn! I got back into the car and Adnan pulled out into the street headed for the next set of sculptures. The police car slowed down, let us pass him, and then he put his flashing lights on and used the loud speaker to tell us to pull over. Uh-oh!
"Oh S#!T!" hubby said as he veered over to the right and came to a stop. When the officer approached our car, Adnan and he exchanged cordial greetings and shook hands. (I had never seen anything like this happen in the states before, that's why I am mentioning it.) My husband showed the officer his driver's license and vehicle papers, and the policeman asked Adnan to step out of the car. After they spoke for a minute, I was asked to get out of the car and show the officer the last few photos I had taken on my digital camera screen. Apparently there was a government building that I wasn't aware of, across the street beyond the sculptures I was photographing. I showed the officer the last dozen or so photos I had taken. Luckily that government building wasn't in any of the pictures. The officer smiled and sent us on our merry way when he saw this one:
Friday, October 29, 2010
Pink Ribbon Earns KSA Place in History

Women in Saudi Arabia made history last night, shattering the existing Guinness Book of World Records in the formation of the largest human pink ribbon chain emphasizing global awareness in the battle against breast cancer.
I don't know if the rest of the world actually realizes or appreciates what a seemingly impossible feat this really was to achieve in such a deeply cultured, strictly religious, and male-dominated society like Saudi Arabia where women are hidden behind black drapes when out in public. KSA has a reputation for being known as a place where women should not be seen or heard from, where women must have a legal male guardian all their lives, and where the rights of women are seen by the rest of the world as being limited, antiquated, and oppressed.Logistically speaking, the odds were against us. Since females are prohibited from driving here in the "Magic Kingdom," what that means is that every single woman who participated in the event - except those who may have been close enough to walk to the site - was driven to the venue by a man.
Organizing and pulling off a stunt like this was a daunting task in a country where mass gatherings are discouraged and where men and women mingling together in public places is strictly forbidden. There were no men allowed inside the Ministry of Education Sports Stadium, which had never before been used to host an event for women. In fact I was told by an event organizer that the management of the stadium had initially refused to open the stadium for women. A call from higher powers quickly corrected that issue and the management was on board. Other male protesters in law enforcement and city government who voiced their objections were also quashed, and their objections turned into offers of assistance and support.
I also learned that the religious authorities were in a tizzy (no surprise here) over the fact that women would be gathering together like this en masse. However, at every turn the objectors were overruled. The event's organizers had gone through all the proper channels, followed protocol, received approvals and official documents from every required governmental agency, and had the full support of the government to proceed with this monumental occasion. In fact, if it weren't for the major clout backing this event, women in Saudi Arabia would likely have never been able to pull it off. The clout I'm speaking of responsible for the conception and implementation of this ground-breaking event was Princess Reema bint Bandar bin Sultan and the Zahra Breast Cancer Association of which she is a founding member.
I had the honor and privilege of meeting Princess Reema at the event last night and was taken aback when she thanked me for the post I had written announcing this event and told me she reads my blog! I awkwardly apologized for sometimes complaining about things here in KSA and lamely joked with her that there wasn't much else for me to do here. She was very gracious, charming and regal, while at the same time being so very normal and approachable - exactly the way I imagine a princess should be. We arrived at the stadium shortly after 5pm, when the gates were opened. There was already quite a large crowd of women, with more and more arriving with every passing minute. Once inside the gate, there was a table where we had to obtain ticket stubs in order to then go to another table to get our pink hooded ponchos which were provided free of charge to all attendees. Because of the enormous crowd of women, this process took at least half an hour. There were also a variety of booths for sponsors, including Zahra Breast Cancer Association, Al Bidayah Breastfeeding Resource and Women's Awareness Center, and Avon. Free bottled water was also available.
For weeks beforehand, the old stadium was readied for the event. The bathrooms were renovated and the hole-in-the-ground toilets were replaced with regular seated toilets. I'm guessing that there are only men's toilets at the facility since women had historically never been allowed to attend any events held there before this because of this society's strict gender segregation policies. The grassy field was watered and tended to and was perfectly manicured. I can't recall ever seeing that much grass in one place here in Saudi Arabia since I've been here! The VIP section in the center was furnished with nice padded chairs for special guests (including me!), and there were beautiful large throne-like chairs where the princesses in attendance were seated. The daytime temperature had reached an irritable and stifling 100F (37C) and the humidity was a muggy 70%. Needless to say, that stadium was packed with a lot of uncomfortable sweaty women who were anxious and excited to come together for a common cause despite the weather conditions. Every single woman had to be counted by the Guinness representative before she was allowed to do the Avon Walk for the Cure on the track around the grassy field, which had been carefully marked into the pattern shaped into the large breast cancer awareness ribbon. I was part of the first group of 100 to be counted and to begin the journey around the track. As we passed the grandstands where thousands of women were seated, waiting for their turns to be counted, the women began cheering and waving and singing the Saudi national anthem. Excitement was in the air - it was phenomenal and very uplifting.
Estimates were that there were about 6000 women total in attendance, however some were unable to stay the entire time due to transportation issues. The crowd was made up of not just Saudi women, but included expats from many countries around the world including the USA, England, Europe, and many Asian and African countries. I met young women from at least two local international schools who were tranported there by the busfuls. I also met women who had flown in from Riyadh just for this event and others who had driven from Mecca and Taif. Even in the sweltering heat and in the midst of only females, some of the women who came still felt compelled to wear their face veils because of all the cameras around. There were also hundreds of volunteers who assisted in so many ways to make the event a success. It took well over an hour for the ribbon formation to take shape and be filled in. Those of us who were first on the field began to sit on the grass. We were already all hot, sticky, and sweaty anyway, so it wasn't like we were concerned about getting a little grass, insects, or dirt on us at that point! And actually sitting on the grass made me cool down a little bit. Slowly the sea of women dressed in pink ponchos united for a cause became the symbol for Breast Cancer Awareness. The exact official count has not yet been released by Guinness, however it is clear that Saudi Arabia exceeded the German record of 3640 participants set in 2007.
The heat, the humidity, the crowds, the pushing, the waiting, the standing, the discomfort, the sweating - was it all worth it? YES!!!This was an historic achievement in so many ways for the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia. I think it shows that Saudi Arabia wants to be an active and integral part of the modern global community. I also feel that it indicates that Saudi Arabia doesn't want to be perceived as that strange and oppressive country that many people around the world fear or criticize because it has always been such a mystery. I think this event also shows that the royal family and many people of Saudi Arabia want the country to progress and are not afraid of change if it's for the good of the country. I hope I'm right!
At any rate, I am proud to say that I was there; I was part of it.
Arab News article "Saudi Pink Ribbon Breaks Guinness Record."Saudi Gazette article "Kingdom Breaks World Record."
Click here for the Guinness Website article and awesome photos about another breast cancer awareness record that was broken on October 1st.

































